Football, bedtime stories and even taking out the bins: New Vodafone research of Armed Forces personnel reveals the everyday moments they miss the most

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  • Ahead of Remembrance Day, new Vodafone research reveals more than half (52%) of Armed Forces personnel miss everyday moments more than major occasions such as family birthdays.

  • Vodafone is reaffirming its Armed Forces offer to help personnel stay connected while abroad. Those who take out a new Vodafone Global Roam Airtime Plan with a mobile device, with more than 1GB data allowance, can get a Vodafone Advantage 25% discount on their monthly airtime, giving them roaming capability across a wide selection of eligible destinations.

  • Nine in ten (90%) say a phone or video call home has made a difficult day noticeably better while deployed. Whilst more than four in five (82%) worry about the cost of using their mobile to stay in touch when posted overseas.

For more than half (52%) of those stationed abroad, it is the little things of daily life they miss more than major occasions such as family birthdays. The survey of 2,000 current or recently serving Armed Forces personnel found that 94% appreciated everyday home life more when serving away. Watching Match of the Day or football on television was missed by 52%, followed by favourite television programmes (38%) and cooking dinner for the family (34%).

Surprisingly, one in five (20%) even missed household chores such as washing up, taking the bins out and doing the weekly food shop. Recognising the vital connection between Armed Forces personnel and their loved ones, Vodafone is reaffirming its Armed Forces offer – to help eligible personnel stay close to those who matter most. Those who take out a new Vodafone Global Roam Airtime Plan with a mobile device, with more than 1GB data allowance, can get a Vodafone Advantage 25%* discount on their monthly airtime, giving them roaming capability across a wide selection of eligible destinations **.

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This means service members can use their UK data, minutes and texts abroad at no extra cost, free from the worry of unexpected roaming bills. To receive the discount, armed forces members need to apply online through Vodafone Advantage Armed Forces website and add the discount code at online checkout

From bedtime stories to homework reminders, everyday family routines were keenly missed. Seven in ten (70%) missed reading to their children at bedtime, while 44% missed hugging or cuddling them. Even the challenges of parenting featured: 42% missed dealing with tears and tantrums, and 40% missed reminding their children to do their homework. Almost a third (32%) missed quality time with their partner.

Alongside those daily moments, personnel reported missing significant family milestones because of a posting or deployment: 26% had missed a child’s first steps, 22% a child’s birthday and 12% the birth of their child. Overall, 94% said they had felt guilty about missing an important family occasion.

Staying connected when it matters most

A call home can make a tangible difference: nine in ten (90%) said a phone or video call had made a difficult day noticeably better while deployed, either many times or occasionally. Yet unreliable connectivity, communications restrictions and roaming costs can stand in the way.

More than half (54%) said poor connectivity or communications restrictions had occasionally stopped them speaking to family or a partner for as long as they wanted. Obstacles included unreliable internet (46%), poor mobile signal (38%) and operational or security restrictions (32%).

Cost is another barrier. More than four in five (82%) worried about mobile roaming charges when posted overseas, 44% had cut a phone or video call short because of the cost and almost a quarter (24%) had avoided video calls altogether.

Vodafone proudly stands with the UK’s Armed Forces community

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Steve Knibbs, Director, Vodafone Business Security Enhanced (VBSE), said: “As we mark Remembrance Day, we recognise the commitment of Armed Forces personnel and the families supporting them. When you’re serving far from home, a call isn’t just a conversation – it’s a chance to be there for the moments that matter. From watching football together to sharing a bedtime story, our research shows it’s often the smallest moments that leave the biggest gap.

“That’s why we are reaffirming our Armed Forces offer to help eligible personnel stay close to loved ones, with savings on selected airtime plans and inclusive roaming on eligible plans. Serving abroad shouldn’t mean cutting a call home short because of cost concerns.”

Vodafone’s support extends beyond mobile, with best-value broadband options tailored to military personnel and exclusive full-fibre deals for Armed Forces families. It also helps veterans and reservists access dedicated career transition services and flexible employment opportunities.

For eligibility, available plans and full terms, visit the Vodafone website.

Vodafone will also offer the Ministry of Defence and its military photographers a trial of SuperMobile for this year’s Remembrance events. With thousands gathering at the Cenotaph, high demand on mobile networks can make it harder for photographers to publish images quickly.

SuperMobile will support military photographers with the dedicated connectivity needed to upload official images in real time for use by the public and news organisations. Official Ministry of Defence imagery from the events will be published through the Defence Imagery website.

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Notes to Editors:

* The discount can’t be used in conjunction with any other discounts or promotions

** Vodafone’s global roaming coverage includes over 80 destinations worldwide

25GB roaming fair use, acceptable use policy and terms apply: vodafone.co.uk/terms.

Missed family moments Total (%)
Physical affection with partner 62
Hugging/cuddling children 44
Quality time with partner 32
Family meals 30
Chatting about their day 24
Playing with children 24
Watching TV together 16
Sleeping in own bed 16
Home-cooked meals 14
Pets 14

 

Missing everyday moments Total (%)
Match of the Day/football 52
Favourite TV programmes 38
Cooking family dinner 34
Washing up 20
Taking bins out 20
Weekly food shop 20
Walking the dog 20
Pub with friends 20
Takeaway with partner 18
Gardening/mowing lawn 14
Sitting on sofa doing nothing 10
Cleaning/tidying 8

 

Missing childhood moments Total (%)
Sorting tears and tantrums 42
Nagging about homework 40
Telling children to tidy bedrooms 30
Sibling arguments 28
Bedtime arguments 20
Cleaning up after children 18
Early wake-ups 16
Getting children ready for school 10
Persuading children to eat dinner 8
Teenage moods 4

 

Guilt over missed moments Total (%)
Partner’s birthday 32
Child’s first steps 26
Child’s birthday 22
Christmas Day 22
Child’s first words 18
Own birthday 18
Loved one’s medical appointment 18
Child’s sporting achievements 14
Birth of their child 12
School sports day 12
Family funeral 10
Wedding anniversary 6
Child’s first day at school 6
Family wedding 4
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